<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Ignite Your Change]]></title><description><![CDATA[Empower Your Growth, Ignite Your Change]]></description><link>https://www.iycllc.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 11:50:36 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.iycllc.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Why Every Parent Benefits from Circle of Security Parenting]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most parents do not seek support until something feels out of control. Maybe their child is melting down constantly. Maybe a teenager has shut them out. Maybe school problems, anxiety, aggression, conflict, or a diagnosis finally force the question: "What do we do now?" Maybe an adult child has literally walked away. But the truth is, parenting patterns begin shaping relationships long before there is a visible “problem.” Many of us are trying hard not to repeat the things we disliked or were...]]></description><link>https://www.iycllc.com/post/why-every-parent-benefits-from-circle-of-security-parenting</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a0cbaa59209fbd4f4ef9bbe</guid><category><![CDATA[Parenting & Connection]]></category><category><![CDATA[Circle of Security Parenting]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 19:47:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e9583e_689c9be09f6a4e7693e59f61f096584b~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Sarah Fortin</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Relationship You Build Early Becomes the Relationship You Have Later]]></title><description><![CDATA[Many parents assume that if they provide enough love, structure, opportunities, and protection during childhood, a close adult relationship with their child will naturally follow. But relationships are not built only through logistics and caregiving—they are built through attunement. Children and teenagers want to feel known: not just managed, corrected, transported, or praised, but emotionally understood. And in the busyness of school schedules, sports, activities, homework, screens, work...]]></description><link>https://www.iycllc.com/post/the-relationship-you-build-early-becomes-the-relationship-you-have-later</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a033f21e8ad7aab1e5cd5ff</guid><category><![CDATA[Parenting & Connection]]></category><category><![CDATA[Circle of Security Parenting]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 15:07:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e9583e_daef4654e4944df78695eed9fa4da611~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Sarah Fortin</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding the Hidden Influence of Your Reactions on Child Development]]></title><description><![CDATA[Your child is always watching you—closely and quietly. They track your tone, your facial expressions, and your reactions to understand how they are doing and whether they are safe. This is not a conscious effort on their part but a deep, natural connection. A quick sigh, a distracted “uh-huh,” vague praise, or a sharp response can carry more weight than you might realize. Children do not just listen to your words; they read your emotions and body language to make sense of themselves and the...]]></description><link>https://www.iycllc.com/post/understanding-the-hidden-influence-of-your-reactions-on-child-development</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69f75e875caf4ed272b79e85</guid><category><![CDATA[Parenting & Connection]]></category><category><![CDATA[Neurodiversity]]></category><category><![CDATA[Leadership & Self-Awareness]]></category><category><![CDATA[Circle of Security Parenting]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2026 14:55:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e9583e_9c833b3ee6b84101bf95ab8be832c76c~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Sarah Fortin</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Perfection is Not a Parenting Goal]]></title><description><![CDATA[Somewhere along the way, many parents absorb a quiet but powerful message: "your job is to get it right." If you can avoid mistakes, stay patient, say the right things, and respond perfectly, your child will grow up free of the confusion, hurt, or “drama” you may have experienced. It’s an appealing idea. And an impossible one. Parenting this way becomes less about connection and more about performance. Every misstep feels like evidence that something is going wrong, rather than a normal part...]]></description><link>https://www.iycllc.com/post/perfection-is-not-a-parenting-goal</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69f3b0a8c99eb1cb510bc327</guid><category><![CDATA[Parenting & Connection]]></category><category><![CDATA[Circle of Security Parenting]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 20:25:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e9583e_168742ee531b49e6a45c278055da1ba2~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Sarah Fortin</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>